Consciousness dies off after death and it is non existent before life. The only consciousness is living. The person who achieves the things he aspires life with grace, courtesy, and having a sophisticated charm. A leader who has the urbane, suave, elegant and polished character will be able to guide his followers to an affable living. Royalties are formed to care take the masses to enable them a sprightly life. Governance is born by the people and for the people for a decent living. A good government is essential part of any country to use its land and resources to prgress in the world’ trade. Life is all about living – nothing less, nothing more. So live and let live.

Origin Of Right And Wrong

Primatologists like Frans de Waal have long debated that the core of human morality are evident in social animals like apes and monkeys. The animals’ feelings of empathy and expectations of reciprocity are essential behaviours for mammalian group living and can be connected to the origin of human morality.

Social animals possess the basic of a moral system in that they can recognise cheating or deviations from expected behaviour. But they generally lack the psychological mechanisms on which the pervasive reciprocity of human society is based, like the ability to remember bad behavior, quantify its cost, recall prior interactions with an individual and punish offenders. Lions cooperate on the hunt, but there is no punishment for laggards.

The origin of right and wrong can be said to be evolved to its final shape during the hunter-gatherer phase of the human past, before the dispersal from the ancestral homeland in northeast Africa some 50,000 years ago. To kill a life is wrong but to kill a life for food is acceptable to the human mind.

Belief System

With the basic foundation of moral grammar wired into our minds our experiences help to buld further patterns in the brain. The first touch of pain and the contact of pleasure are registered in our brain. So when a similar event happens, we use the formed patten to respond. These patterns if broken or by passed we are able to find new results and destiny. A check carried out by the head of department on the punctuality of its site staff can mean they are getting out against all site staff. It can be that the company is looking into punctuality as a factor in impressing their clients as they will be given a prompt service.

Debonair lifestyle

A debonair lifestyle is being current. It has humor, appreciation, purpose, positivity, integration, navigation, elevation, self respect and steadfastness.

Humor is the ability to produce a smile or laughter along with general goodwill. If you use humor in your life everything becomes far less serious but jovial and fun. Laughter is still the best medicine for you and others.

Appreciation is a soft way of showing gratitude to others who has done something for us. It can be your parent, colleague, spouse, or relative. When you show appreciation to others your life becomes warm.

Purposeful life is being objective. Life is framed by time so in order to have a meaningful one we calculate our gains as time runs out. An achievable goal is set out and reached with a stipulated time frame. If life is about killing time then it brings us to the boredom level. It has to be challenging.

Positivity makes our life buoyant. Stay positive on a daily basis. Always see the light at the end of the tunnel. Be hopeful for the best. In every situation do not whine about the negative side of things. It is for the good and situaltions will get better.

Integrate all goodness that you find in others. Some has eloquenceof speech, some has the generosity, and some may have the wisdom to influence everyone positively. Pull those things that add to your asset and strength.

Navigate through life with the good, the bad and the ugly. But in the end you have to reach your target. Life without experience is like a soup without salt.

Elevate your self one step higher than what you think you are. If you are a clerk think that you are the administrator of the office. Get noticed by elevation.

Self respect is vital for self development. There are two circles for success. One is the inner circle or self and the other is the outer circle or circumstance. The latter is beyond our management and the former is within our control. Control your inner circle and respect it.

Steadfastness will make you reach your destination. You have to be agile and active moving towards your aim in life.

Do you have any tips to add to have a dashing lifestyle?