Do you want to be a dynamic person? A dynamic person is one who is charismatic and charming. This person gels and connects with everyone. This person is likeable by many people. This person is admired by many. Not because this person is rich or wealthy but he has soe way to attract people to his side. How to be dynamic all the time?

Engage

Have you admired someone who really engages with many people? Have you ever yearned to move and manipulate people? The right way to engage with anyone is to communicate with them. But you may ask what to talk about? The first step is to prepare to engage.

Even before a meeting or a party starts, prepare and get ready to engage with the people whom you want to meet. The easiest way to do this is to remind people of the recent popular event. By this you can have something to talk about to the other person -  even if this person is a stranger. By telling a story, you’re bringing the other person to a common platform. And from then on you can divert to any other topic that may emerge.

Do not keep quiet all the time. You may give an impression that you know nothing or you’re just simply not interested with the people around you.

Mannerism

Manners depends on the time, situation and place. If you’re in Rome live like the Romans do. It is only a natural instinct for people to care less about others. But in real life situation we have to put up a so called ‘false’ front to make you as an approachable person.

How do you dress for the occasion? How do you present your self for the forthcoming meeting? What kind of body spray do you use? What perfume do you prefer? Do you cleanse your teeth before every meeting? You may ask why you have to be so conscious of society. Those who are successful are those people who have got majority public support. If you’re in business you need majority vote for your good and service.

Speak with measured tone and clarity. Be always emitting good odor when you’re in public. Take care of your bad breath in meeting. Dress for the occasion. If you’re greying my suggestion is to get it coloured. Be pleasant.

Adapt To Different Mode Of Communication

We are in the age of technology. We have emails, short message service (sms) against the conventional face to face dialogue. Have you come across a situation like this?- you needed some information from your business counterpart. You make a quick sms but he or she did not respond to it. You give out an email and you don’t get a reply. Face to face communication is preferred.

In today’s context the major part of communication is through technology. And when you use emails or sms write out with greetings and then followed by the message. And do not write out in capital letters. YOU’RE SHOUTING.

And when you’re busy in a meeting do not press the green answer button on your hand phone and remain blabbering in the meeting. The person who is calling you may get an impression that you’re rudely busy.:)

Give An Interesting Answer

It is a good tactic of writing short sentences as a writer. But during a conversation it is best to drag a little.

When someone asks you how have you been, you’ll normally answer that ‘ I am fine’. Try something different like ‘amazing’, ‘great’ or ‘I feel fantastic’. The person who listens will expect some vibrant reasons behind these energetic words and phrases. The good part of such rich words give a subliminal positive message to both parties (the person who answers and the person who ask) that life is really good after all.

Public Are Customers

The essence of good communication lies in you. The key to this is to see every person as your customer -  even though you’re not selling anything to them. Every one is your customer.

The job you do also affects your character and communication with people. If you’re a prison warden the likely look you give to others is your good frown. If you’re an accountant you’re likely to be very calculative person. If you’re a lawyer you’re going to be argumentative. It is a good practice to check your own behavior.

The simples way to alter you’re behavior is to see others as your customers. You do not have to be an entrepreneur to do this. There is nothing wrong to be an employee. Just imagine that you’re doing a business with others. Your rapport with them will improve.

Do Not Fear Rejection

Do not think about being rejected. Try ways to connect and accept rejection in a positive way.

You can communicate with anyone with confidence provided you get along with rejection. This is because we think the other person is better than you. You put others above you for one reason or other. The reasons may not be true or factual. It is only your mind dictating your thinking. You think that the other person is a celebrity.

To be afraid of rejection is not to think about it. If everyone needs oxygen to survive then we are all equal.