Build Your Life
Do you feel that you’re dragging your feet everyday to your office? Do you feel that you have no energy to carry out what you’re doing right now? This is the saturation point in your career life.This is the point you have to build your life you want. But before you do that you need the right tools.
What Do You Want To Do
A square peg will not go into a round hole. Not everyone can be as flexible as a clay paste. We get tired of our routine jobs. We get bored with our daily work. In the first place this is not what you wanted to do.What are you going to do now?
The first step in building your life is not to make a goal. It is to find out what you really wanted to do. The simplest way to find out is to write out the 5 things you’ll love to do at this moment. Against those statements, write out a grade upon 10 for each statement. the highest score is the one you’re pssionate about.
Passion is what drives you to do a certain activity without being conscious of effort. Realise this soon before making a out a goal.
Believe In Your Self – The Only Limit Is Your Thinking Mind
Treat your mind like a computer – give your command. If you don’t do this it becomes your commander and usually a nasty one.
It ‘tells’ you all kinds of things and makes you approach life in a pessimistic way. “That is difficult to do”, ” you cannot close the sale by this product’, and ‘its impossible to work in Dubai while you’re family is in Singapore’. The chattering mind is the enemy within you. Activate your self belief and kill the enemy every time it emerges to kill you.
Opportunity And Frustration
Do you cook your food before you eat it? In every pursuit the process has some form of frustration before the end result. This is because we are conscious of the process.
A pregnant mother has to go through 9 months of pain before the arrival of her beautiful baby. Two days ago I bought an enrichment video disc for my daughter. I wanted her to upgrade her grades in mathematics. I find mathematics is a good way to make you focus.
As I was browsing the shelf of a book store I came across a promoter standing by the pile of video disc. Being inquisitive, I approached him on his product. To my amazement this was what I was looking for my daughter. This product is really fantastic and I would have missed a magic wand to do a miracle for my child. The promoter was very knowledgeable about his product and willing to share minor bits of information. He was very skillful in his speech and I admired his cogent presentation. Eventually, I bought it.
A week later, I received a short message service from this sales person. It said that he was getting too much pressure from his boss and would like me to pen some good word about him on the feedback email he had given me together with his message. I replied that I would but added that we were indefinetly locked in a negative shell build by negative people and the pressures were actually blessings. A chick tries everytime to get out of its shell to survive. Use pressure and frustration to see the opportunity surrounding you!
Do 10 Perent Smarter
If you have an idea it is not good enough. Anyone can have an idea. But most idea becomes a reality if it is carried out 10 percent smarter.
The important criteria for a successful business is customer. The people who buy your product or service. But in every business there is competion. One option is sell something that has no competition and be rich. 
Otherwise you have to do 10 percent smarter.
If you’re running a trading company, the best way to gain attention is by giving a brief presentation about your company and what types of trading it does. This you can do it in You Tube. The internet is ever flooding with users daily. blogs are sprouting here and there. Check this link out.
Work Is Your Hobby
I believe to build up you life successfully you need to change your perception. Every business is ultimately work. Hence, do not take work as work. Take it as a hobby and you’re doing this hobby daily to feel happier.Just like catching a fish gives you inner elation, completing and getting the result you’re ever wanted from your work will have the same feeling.
Why most people slow down is either they wanted external praise or they see less cash inflow. With these factors you cannot judge what you’re doing is right. These are just mirage in your business life. The important thing is you. You have to live like a fish – it does not absorb the salt content. It is not attached to the external factor.
I love this piece “The first step in building your life is not to make a goal. It is to find out what you really wanted to do.”
We are caught up in the social maze on many things that don’t add value to our lives. Find out our passion, work towards achieving excellence in it, and ignore the outcome. Passion + excellence will definitely lead to a successful outcome on which you haven’t fixated your mind. The journey will be a pleasant one!
Nice Blog..! Enjoying life’s simple pleasures and save as much as you can. Expensive things don’t create lasting happiness and security. Careful spending will bring you greater leisure and enjoyment in the long run.