Naturally, man is the maintainer of woman. If you are a woman, do not get enraged over this statement. I am merely stating the philosophy of the old. However, there is a reason for this philosophy.

During the time when ancient man acquire his food by hunting, male was naturally a hunter far better than female. Woman carrying big boobs and a bum was a sluggish hunter. Man and woman made an agreement that thereon the former takes the role of a hunter. The hunting skills got worse when she was menstruating.  At that time, there was no contraception. There was a continuous child bearing and birth activity burdened the woman. Therefore, the predominant role of man was to search for food. He began to embark on the role of a breadwinner. He was the maintainer of woman.

Woman began a role of a house maker. She was a lover at night and a caretaker of the house and children during the day. That was the subliminal agreement then.

Great Expectations

Despite having good boops and bum, todays woman do not need muscle power to survive. With good education, she has a job to earn an income to sustain life. However, she has still the dependency trait to the male species. This natural expectation of woman from a man is the point to grasp in the understanding of the relationship between woman and man.

Care

To care for someone emanates from the love for that someone. A woman can see right through a man if he cares for her or not. If you are caring about that someone, you will always want to know her well-being. A woman understands this very well.

A woman expects this from a man. Buying her favourite chocolate is a simple way that you care for her. It need not be expensive. Buying her some goodies on her birthday is a common method to show caring attitude. However, if you surprise her with small things occasionally, brings lustre in your love life.

Listen

I usually score very high for listening comprehension. It is because it is in my nature to listen to someone. Woman loves the person who listens to her.

If you are not a listening type, learn how to listen. Learn how to sacrifice a bit of your time to listen to your woman. Most courtship fails because the male is rather lethargic in the relationship and fails to listen. It is not woman being possessive. It is man not being coming down to a level to listen. After marriage, you have to listen more. Take a sip of honey to make you alert for the listening part.

Carry out

Woman expects man to carry out what she wanted him to do. This again is not being dominative. This is her nature to dedicate some of her obligations, which she cannot fulfil for certain reasons.

If she wanted you to mend the baby at night, do not be lazy. Carry out the task and you will find that your sweetheart loves you throughout the night. If you are returning home and receive a short message service in your hand phone to purchase some of the groceries she has missed – carry out the work.

Help Out Not Work Out

Even if you are very interested in house chore, do not over-do it. You just need to help her out not to do the entire work by yourself.

If you are seeing that your wife is busy cooking, help her out to throw the refuse for the day. The important thing is to seek her clearance before you indulge in such task. This is not to interfere in her daily chores. That is her territory. Woman by nature is a homemaker. Any interference will jeopardise the relationship.

To Propose Her To Rest After Marriage

Tan Kin Lian’s blog say that to improve birth rate the state should share the burden of a family. However, he has forgotten that child bearing is a burdensome activity for the woman. She expects rest and comfort during that time. The onus lies with the husbands to provide for the wife.  He has to have the guts to propose to her to stay at home while he seeks out for great earnings. The proposal by the husband gives confidence to the wife to have a child.

However, Singapore husbands are not daring like the Palaeolithic man who ensures that their wife or wives are well taken care of. Behind all the expecting women who are working right now in Singapore, there are lazy husbands. It is not the responsibility of the State but a noble job for the guys to give confidence that their income will suffice for the wives and children.

Likewise those who are in courtship if the fiancé proposes to her to rest after marriage the likely hood of forming a family is high. The problem is with the male and not with the female. Think about this guys! You are the breadwinners and not the girls. Be a man.

To Like Other People Babies

Even if you are father of three be a spontaneous lover of other people babies. This shows that you are fond of babies and will like to have more of them from your spouse. Even kissing your own baby is a sign of indirect sexual signal to the woman. Woman loves this baby-loving guy.

To Feed Her

There is no reason to bring her to expensive dining outlets. If you happen to eat with her, take a bit of your food and feed your woman. That is why mother is a best person of any child. This is where you get the attachment or bond between two persons. The next time you go with a woman feed her from your plate. You can see a slight tear of friendship from her beautiful eyes.

To Never To Look At Other Woman

The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality says, “Human beings evolved in very intimate groups where sex often involved multiple partners.” Modern day “adulterous” are mainly males. He has the natural ability to discharge his sperm into a female and then to other females. He has no biological commitment of child carrying burden.

Women love a man based on his stand on faithfulness. Though men are biologically or genetically polygamous, woman can open a heart for man if the latter show some prudence in watching other women.

To Get Angry But Not Violent

Anger is just an emotion. When you are angry, try to keep cool. It is alright to be angry at times but you cannot afford to become violent over an issue.

Most marital break off is due to physical attack on woman. No one likes a barbaric person.

To Admire Her

It is rather easy for guy to do this tactic during courtship. However, it gets harder for a person to admire her woman after 40 years. This is natural on the part of guys as he looks out for attractive woman. This is where your discipline comes in.

Say something good about her appearance positively.

In Singapore, most women are highly educated than men. The educated women go for educated man as they are craving for the 5 c’s: condo, car, credit card, country club and cash. This is what the males here place a stigma on Singaporean women. Even if your education is low, you do not have the guts to approach an educated woman sincerely. You do not have the confidence. Singapore men expects a women salary too when comes to family formation. You are not man enough to tell her that you are the maintainer of your woman.